As Is Customary
Following a trip to Japan Bespoke’s Outsider explains some common protocol that need to be followed to clinch that all-important deal and to be well received in society.
Wear presentable socks
Always remove your shoes at the entrance and leave them at the doorway, a practice that is also followed by Iranians. Both cultures reserve a high-regard for the works of art they place on the ground. The Iranians have carpets to protect, the Japanese have Tatami mats.
Two hand salute
To show respect for people, use both hands when handing an object or receiving it. If exchanging business cards do so with the typeface facing the recipient. After receiving a card, look at it, acknowledge it and then keep it out during the meeting. Never put the card away immediately or scribble on it.
Red is dead
Don't ever write a person's name in red ink. That custom is reserved for the names of the deceased only.
Kiss it goodbye
Don't attempt to kiss someone when saying hello or goodbye. Japanese rarely make physical displays of affection.
Respect your elders
Don't pick up your chopsticks to begin eating until those older than you at the table have done so even if that means waiting a full hour. Sushi, after all, doesn’t go cold.
Put your hands up
When travelling on the trains in Japan, men should always keep both hands on the overhead hand rails. This is because the carriages get cramped and women do not wish to worry about groping.
